CoDependency

New beginnings might not be easy to go through and perhaps even the sound of it scares you. Nothing is forever and Nobody is forever but that has not been shared to us while we grow, of course with the exception of the Millennials

Making the decision to move forward in a relationship either to strength or to finish it, as well with an old friendship, changing career, moving to a different city, having to give a way your pet, lifestyle or coping with the death of a loved one...these are just few examples of the most difficult things to "Let Go".

Even though when we have done in the past, still difficult to unattached to the feeling. Nowadays, what I have found its that its is more difficult to "Take Action", the decision is there, for months and sometime for years in your mind, running and running, planning and imaging "How will it be?"... and I include my self on this because I'm still in the process & I need to share it with you and let you know that once you push away "being afraid" a door of possibilities opens but expect to see a whole "chess game movement"

Why Nowadays? because the world has become more superficial therefore our emotions become superficial but how do you tell what it doesn't exist that you Don't need it?

What I mean with this is, Why do we keep a friend to accompany us to a party, movie, trip even to be at our side when we meet someone new!

Why do we need a partner in order to makes us feel complete, to prove society that we meet the "Qualifications" or for the famous quote "to not die alone" all those judgments, culture requirements had growth emotions with thick roots inside of us building Codependency!

Codependecy has created unhappy people and as a result, unhappy marriages, friendships and inclusive business partners!

This emotion will hold you back, no matter how many times you tried to take action, to make a change or even to avoid it.

Face it, face it by doing the opposite of what its your struggle,

"Agarra a el Toro por los Cuernos!" Hold the Bull from his horns! ( that how we say in Mexico)

I did it! I went to Cancun, Mexico by "My self", never visited, for me it was a place where I always imagined to be there with my love one or with friends to have fun but actually, I had sooo much fun alone (make sure you chose an All inclusive resort) and the result was all the opposite of what I was expecting and this experience thought me a lesson and allowed me to know more about me :)

When your grandparents told you " Life is short"... it true!

Your happiness and well-being is first and if you don't acknowledge that, you do not acknowledge that in others

The beauty its on process

• You will find & Recognize yourself!

• You will build Self Assurance & Strength!

• You will learn to Love your self in harmony

And when you achieve it, you will have a sensation of freedom therefore you will love freely everyone and everything and the best part, there will not be attachments, expectations and control. You will learn to enjoy the moment no mater how long it last with whom or with what and then...

You will Recognize how Valuable you are!!! but you must be open to the change!

Paola N.

3/13/23

canalizacion 3/8/23

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