Is it Loneliness or You are just being with Yourself?
- Paola Najera
- Sep 11, 2024
- 3 min read
if you like to do activities alone, I'm sure you have been asked many times; Why are you always doing things alone?", "Don't you get bored being alone?" "Don't you have friends?" and I can keep going on and on...
Through the healing process or during difficult times where you can not see the situation with clarity, spending time with yourself it is needed. This is the perfect time for introspection and to reconcile with yourself and better yet, you get to know more about yourself.
My angels have explained to me that "Loneliness/Being with yourself" is the "Unification" with your "Inner Being". It is assuming all those longings in your being that do not let you Grow or see how loving you already are.
and I asked; But what about the people that constantly judges you? Why is so difficult for them to understand or finds it strange to see a person alone? they have not yet overcome the Fear of being alone and need to unify with themselves. And why do people feel Alone? due to the lack of LOVE.
Loneliness is "being with your self "i. These are cycles in life that we take to evolve as people, a space to heal and recover your SELF-LOVE.
And what are the steps to not feel Alone?
Unify with yourself.
Find your Self-Love. The need/ belief that you have to be with someone or have something to BE YOURSELF.
Face your EGO. Leave that place where you can not BE YOURSELF! Let that person go because you feel that you can not be yourself.
8/13/24 by Guides of light Mabel, Archangel Jophiel.
The day I decided to start my healing process "to expand my consciousness" which it hasn't been easy but because I requested the help from my heart, I have meet great people which I call them "Angeles Terrenales" - "Earthly Angels" that had guide me to get the assistance or tools that I need to reconnect with my Inner-being to expand my consciousness.
Question for you, has it been a time when all of the sudden, a person comes to you and gives you the answer/solution/guide that you were looking for or a phrase/sentence/experience that you just need to hear in that moment?
When I made the choice to take responsibility of looking at my deepest and hidden emptiness built from past emotions (experiences that we ignore as we are grow because we are thought to not complain or we prevent ourselves to create an image of being weak) 3 years ago, as my healing process and guided by my Angels "Expanded Consciousness of Love" , I started to spend time with myself, I was afraid and at times I felt embarrassed but with the time I started to enjoy more time with myself specially when traveling. Everywhere I went I was asked " only you?, Table for one only?, Oh! is only you ma'am? etc...but now I laugh! I wish I knew someone that has taken this step in their life for support (WARNING - CODEPENDENCY) or advise but unfortunately everyone that "I knew" at that time and few now that continues living their life with old beliefs or structures passed by generations just like I was but now I understand that;
"Everything was perfect just as it was, how it happen and When it happened and with whom it happened" .




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